How can i get my boyfriend to help me?

he thinks your calling him a bad father because clearly he thinks hes a bad father....i mean this is how it is for alot of people so im not singling him out, but he needs to step up and help...if there is a four slice pie which represents taking care of the child(excluding the financial part) he should take AT LEAST one slice of the pie, of course your main job is to be the mother while hes working but he should spend at least 2 hours playing with her and spending time with u, turn the tv's and computers off and just be a family....thats the idea, but im only 20 years old and no kid so i cant really tell u how to get him to do that...